The Butterfly Blueprint

Book excerpt: We want so much more out of love and life—and yet we feel helpless to attain it. Women and men want emotional and sexual intimacy but often find themselves living like roommates, feeling alone and frustrated. The Butterfly Blueprint is veteran couple’s counselor AMANDA GREEN’S prescription for love that lasts. Much like a butterfly needs two distinct sets of wings to work together to fly, a relationship takes two people consciously caring for their connection to gracefully navigate life’s twists and turns. Green presents a thoughtful case for cultivating effective interdependence in one’s marriage or long-term relationship. In the Butterfly Blueprint, you will find a stellar guide—including 8-principles and 24-practices—for building and maintaining true and lasting love. The Butterfly Blueprint is a transformative tool for couples facing common challenges related to money, sex, parenting, in-laws, running a household, and addictions. Green has helped hundreds of couples in her thriving private practice, and readers could hardly hope for better counsel. Her personal stories sprinkled throughout the book are revealing, relatable, and encouraging.