My Grandmother Is Always with Me

Book excerpt: Children look to us as adults to guide and assist them through the confusing time both before and after the death of a loved one. This brief explanation is intended as a resource for adults to help you answer children's questions and reassure their uncertainties. These suggestions are intended to help you guide your children during times of change and to help children to actively remember their deceased loved ones, rather than dwell only on the pain of loss. Through remembering, children can honor the relationship they have with their dead loved ones in ways that enrich their own and their family's lives. We hope that this guide will spark ideas and practices that invite the joyful moments of remembering with your children.