Deceptions, Distractions & Disillusionment: Barriers to Your Success and Ours

Book excerpt: We find it difficult to see ourselves clearly or change our behaviors to be in line with our desires. We don't know ourselves, or we focus on what we think are negatives about ourselves (shame). We don't trust ourselves (suppression). We don't know our purpose in comparison to the other (role confusion). We don't trust the other (isolation). We are a bunch of islands attempting to convince ourselves that we are "family." "Family" has come to mean something less than people who are willing to give their all to establish your success. Overcoming this deception starts with the realization that YOU are to blame. Forgiveness, Perfection, and Agency are elements of the solution we both must learn.