Tough Decisions in Care of Elderly Loved Ones

Book excerpt: Being responsible for the needs and care of an elderly loved one can be a difficult role that many of us do willingly but it requires a lot - patience, time, energy, tenderness, and hard work. We often need to make decisions which are life altering for the other person and for ourselves and at times, are not pleasant or easy.How to have a conversation with your elderly loved one about changeDeal with deteriorating physical and mental health in loved ones What happens if they develop dementia? Making the decision on in-home care or a care facilityAdjusting to your role as caregiver while still caring for yourselfTough Decisions in the Care of Elderly Loved Ones is an invaluable, practical, and sympathetic guide to how to give your loved one the best possible care, while addressing the concerns that caretakers may have. After reading the book, you will feel as if someone is holding your hand while you make those tough decisions. In this book, Mahesh Moolani, MD objectively divides the tough situations into four categories and tackles each category in a straightforward way. He offers professional support and guidance on how to maintain a work/life/caring balance and better care for your elderly loved ones.Mahesh Moolani, MD is an Internist who is medical director of two nursing homes and cares for a huge geriatrics population. In his professional career, he has come across thousands of caregivers, who find it hard to provide optimum care to their loved ones, despite their best intentions and efforts.