The Goldilocks Method

Book excerpt: The Goldilocks Method is the first simple and clear, objective process for profiling and discovering the person that's "just right" for you. It's for the millions of single people who are searching for a healthy, enduring relationship and know that it's hard to find. As with any search, the jump-starter is a clear picture - so the person can be identified. That's what The Goldilocks Method is all about... a step-by-step guide for identifying the key characteristics you must have for a successful relationship. Goldilocks had the right idea. In love as in life, you have to test the waters in order to know what's "just right" for you. This breakthrough method begins with three meditations about parents, past relationships and opposite sex friends. Then the reader is given a comprehensive list of qualities to consider and asked to select the ones that are most important to them. This list is refined through careful thought and self-analysis until five key, essential characteristics are uncovered. These are the characteristics their mate must have and they cannot be compromised. The final step is to create an Ideal Mate Profile based on what the reader has discovered and to meditate about it each night before going to bed. Now the reader is searching with a clear picture in mind. When the right person comes along, they are easy to recognize and the ambivalence that often accompanies relationships can be swept away. This proven method for finding love is meant to be a life changer. Reading The Goldilocks Method is a powerful, positive step toward love that lasts.