Sacred Bonds, Broken Ties

Book excerpt: This book delves into the intricacies of marriage and divorce in Judaism, exploring both religious traditions and contemporary practices in Israel. It draws upon a series of lectures delivered by the author at various institutions and provides a comprehensive overview of the subject matter. The book begins by examining the diverse customs and regulations surrounding marriage within different Jewish denominations. It addresses questions such as the prevalence of polygamy, the historical context of its prohibition, and the roles played by various figures in this decision-making process. The author meticulously outlines the various stages of marriage, from the initial engagement and agreement to the wedding night itself. The detailed descriptions of the necessary preparations and rituals ensure a clear understanding of the process. Additionally, the book explores the impediments to marriage, the existence of civil marriage in Israel, and the legal implications of cohabitation. The book delves into the rights and responsibilities of both spouses under Jewish law. The subsequent chapter focuses on divorce in Judaism, meticulously examining its conditions, the parties involved, and the procedures for initiating and finalizing the divorce. It addresses the complexities of divorce against the wife's will, the circumstances under which a wife may seek a divorce, and the rituals prescribed for a lawful divorce. The author carefully outlines the consequences of a husband's refusal to divorce, the contents of a divorce document, and the concept of the "suspended woman," along with the challenges associated with her status. Furthermore, the book explores the concept of yibum marriage, its implications, and the legal recourse available in the event of a brother's refusal to marry his deceased sibling's widow. It also examines khul'a, a method of divorce initiated by the wife, along with its historical and contemporary applications. Throughout the book, the author seamlessly integrates religious rulings and rituals with contemporary practices in Israel, ensuring that readers gain a comprehensive understanding of the subject matter within its historical and social context. This approach provides a well-rounded perspective on the complexities of marriage and divorce in Judaism, both in theory and in practice.Top of Form