How to Stop Being Judgmental and Needy

Book excerpt: Although having good judgment can be beneficial, having a judgmental personality is generally a negative characteristic. Oftentimes, neediness is at the root of a judgmental personality. Being needy can cause us to act awkwardly in social situations. As a result, we may often get rejected. This rejection can then cause us to become bitter and judgmental towards others.Being judgmental can cause you to: - Miss out on good friendships and relationships because you were overly concerned with petty mistakes a person might have made- Make false assumptions about important decisions - Have unrealistic expectations- Attract negative situations into your life because you are expecting negative things to happenThe idea is to achieve a good balance between being judgmental and not having any good judgment at all.By consistently following certain principles and strategies, it is very possible to have good judgment without being judgmental.This book will cover the most common problems that cause a person to be judgmental and how to fix them.It will include: - Warning signs that indicate you are judgmental- How to stop jumping to conclusions- How to trust- How to stop being selfish- How to stop being needy- How to stop being manipulative